Chabad of Bel Air

We have heard great things about Rabbi Chaim Mentz and his friendly one on one warm approach. Many people in the Bel-Air and across adjacent Westside communities attend his synagogue and also send their children to him based upon his down-to-earth nurturing approach in teaching and guiding people towards Judiasm or just spirituality. So, this month, I decided to interview him as an integral member of the Bel-Air landscape. How and why did you become a rabbi?

It was always so inherent in me to help people that I just gravitated towards it. Both of my parents grew up in non-observant [Jewish] homes, but they became religious before I was born. I found that my love of religion instilled in me by my parents enabled me to explain the mystique of Judaism to my non-observant relatives and soon many others were coming to me to learn. What do you hope to accomplish as a rabbi? Two things: to bring happiness to people's lives and to help them create a connection to their religion or spirituality. I make it an exciting, positive, non-judgmental experience. I am not a pulpit rabbi trying to sell a quick fix on how to become happy. I invite people to become part of my family and they begin to notice through my family that religion is a positive experience and a way of life. You say you're non-judgmental; can you give us an example of that? I have many people in my congregation who are intermarried, and it is quite amazing to see how they work as a team to bring more of this Jewish lifestyle to their home. I never make any Jew feel guilty that he/she married out of their faith. Why do you call yourself the "best kept secret in Bel-Air"? Being that we are in an exclusive neighborhood, people want to experience religion in a personal way without exposure to the rest of the world. I do not advertise because I prefer it to be a one-on-one, family-on-family experience. Have you received support or negativity from the community of Bel-Air? The people of Bel-Air have accepted us with open arms. So many families in the area who have attended other temples heard about our secret hideaway synagogue and have fallen in love with our style that they couldn't find elsewhere. Many Orthodox rabbis look so foreboding, so foreign with their long black coats, hats and flowing beards. Many people feel they can't relate. How do you combat that image? I smile; people love that instant acceptance. I do not like the word "orthodox." It sounds harsh, close-minded, right wing and very judgmental, and living in this cosmopolitan area people want to be accepted for who they are and not what you want them to be. Therefore, we have no membership fees, we don't ask for your religious background or affiliation. All we ask is that you come and enjoy and find out why Judaism has been so exciting for thousands of years. You welcome all. How do you sustain a synagogue? I don't believe in making people feel guilty that you have to pay to pray; I prefer the second choice of giving people a wonderful experience so they want to keep coming back with their families and others to enjoy. Thank G‑d people donate. When people come to your home for Shabbos [Friday night] dinners, are they surprised at their misconceptions of you and your family? At first yes, because most people think that my children are sheltered and could not associate with their children. But after ten minutes they recognize how normal and sociable my children are. In fact, my children are my best advertisement—they are proof that you could be "with it," happy, and well-adjusted with religion in your life. What if someone's not Jewish and wants to experience or even get spirituality and insight from you? Are you available to them? Besides being the rabbi of my synagogue, for many years I was a radio host on talk radio KFI AM 640 and had many non-Jewish listeners. For example, I meet people and we just sit and schmooze, and I let them know I am available to them just as much. I remind them that in this world we are all God's children and that I am here to open the door to your own spirituality no matter what. Today many people consider me not just a rabbi, but a close friend. Why have American Jews lost interest in their religion? I too would be bored with Judaism if I was put in a synagogue with a book to read which I didn't understand. How do you bring their interest back? My synagogue is based on their level, to uplift them to an understanding, love and appreciation of our awesome religion. Do you offer children's religious education? Yes, we have a private Sunday School.

Hebrew School is an incredible opportunity. Where we have the chance to inspire future adults with a sense of Jewish pride and awareness.

At Chabad of Bel Air our goal is simple: We want our students to acquire an appreciation and pride for their Judaism. We hope to engage their senses of identity by capturing their imaginations and attention. So, we make it our goal to ensure our lesson are intriguing to the students, and have a relaxed and positive atmosphere.

From ChabadofBelAir.org